“Then Moses led Israel from the Red Sea and they went into the Desert of Shur.” (Exodus 15:22)
With that verse, the Israelites began their
long wandering in the desert. The 12
plagues and the Red Sea crossing behind them, they faced a foreboding wasteland
void of sustenance. I have a special
understanding of what that must have felt like.
We here at Family Promise are entering our own desert wandering of
sorts.
In
the past month, I have watched as two of our guest families moved from
homelessness to beautiful new duplexes just behind Anderson Interfaith
Ministries. I have been privileged to
see how Anderson Interfaith Ministries, the Women and Children Succeeding
program, and Homes of Hope all worked together with Family Promise to give both
of these families a real chance at long term success and independence. Both mothers have worked so hard to get where
they are. Countless volunteers and
community residents have stepped forward to help them—one group donated
furniture, another donated housewares, yet another donated a bed. One volunteer stepped up and donated a
vehicle so one mom could get back and forth to work. Knowing both of these families like I do, I
believe they deserved everything that was given to them—they continue to work
hard to re-establish themselves. Both
will continue to go to school while working.
Both already have Associate’s degrees.
Just
this week I watched as a family donated a mini-van out of the blue to help
someone in need. The guest family that
received that mini-van had 4 children—4 children that didn’t fit in the Jeep
Grand Cherokee they owned. The day we
transferred the mini-van, I got a call from someone in the community telling me
another family’s car had been stolen, and if they didn’t have transportation
soon, they would lose their employment and would be applying to enter Family
Promise. I hung up the phone and the
mother of the family that received the mini-van looked at me and smiled. “I have a Jeep Grand Cherokee they can have”
she said. This is a woman who has 4
children and is homeless; yet, she is willing to surrender her vehicle to help
someone else in need.
The
delivery from Egypt and the crossing of the Red Sea may seem more “miraculous,”
but in my mind they pale in comparison to the miracles I see every day at the
hands of our volunteers. In spite of the
stress of being homeless, the challenges of employment, transportation, and
moving every week while in the program, with the help of our host and support
congregations, guest families are surviving and even thriving. Over 70 children have come through our doors
in the two years we have been serving homeless families—each and every one of
those children have learned what grace means through the helping hands of our
congregations.
Now
we are in a “wandering” of sorts as an organization, temporarily closing to
guest services in order to make us more financially stable. Boulevard Baptist Church will be hosting a
meeting on Tuesday evening, September 4 at 7pm to discuss the particulars of
where we go next. There are a lot of
unknowns ahead. Chances are I will not
complete this journey with you. I want
to encourage those of you who have walked with Family Promise thus far to
remember why we do this: remember the children.
Think of all the kids you have met while serving in Family Promise; know
that ABSOLUTELY NOTHING separates those children from your own children other
than circumstance. Remember that
volunteers like you are the people they remember when they grow up; you make
the difference between them becoming a burden to society and them becoming
contributors to society. Is a little of
your financial support and a few hours of your time four times a year worth
transforming the life of a single child?
One day, I foresee one of those children growing into adulthood and
committing themselves to helping Family Promise—completing the circle so to
speak. Please remember in the midst of
all the “wandering” that will follow in the next few weeks the fundamental
reason we do this: homeless children. If
at all possible, please plan to come to our meeting on September 4. Give your input and show your support for Family
Promise.
It is intriguing
that God issues a warning to the Israelites as they enter the wilderness: “If you listen carefully to the Lord your God
and do what is right in his eyes, if you pay attention to his commands and keep
all his decrees, I will not bring on you any of the diseases I brought on the
Egyptians, for I am the Lord, who heals you.” I think this is a warning we should heed as
well.
Dietrich Bonhoeffer said, “The
test of the morality of a society is what it does for its children.” Perhaps, we should consider this: if our
community was judged by how we treat the “least of these” within our boarders,
would we be praised or condemned, healed or diseased?